forgive and forgo

sound oddly familiar?yah..the usual saying is to forgive and forget...wonder why...things can nvr be forgotten...try as hard as u want..it will always be there...haunting u...forever...the harder u try to forget...the more they do damage to u...so why try to forget?why not forgo?accept that wat done is done and cannot be undone and just move on...why try to escape it?u cant...it is part of u..u noe that...so do not try to escape it...acknowlendge it and accept it like ur own...then just let it sink in as ur past and move on...that way...not only will u feel freedom from ur haunting memories, u become more confident of urself...so wat if we have a past that is totally not wat we wanted it to be...who doesnt?do not forget...life is bed a bed of roses...it may seem as if it is totally perfect...however...who knew abt the unseen thorns and the pain they can cause?