confused

after i start working and hang around msn alot lesser...i feel like i am so out of the loop...like missing out alot of things...why some are depressed while others are blowing hot and cold...haiz...when will people be honest with me so that i can know what to do...i feel like i am doing puzzle without the picture...every piece seems to fit together...but the picture looks disjointed...i wonder how long i need to play this guessing game b4 i chance upon any form of honesty...